Faith Matters: Embodying the spirit of Jeong: Universal values of mutual respect and love echoed across various faiths

The Rev. Dr. Candi Ashenden of the Athol Congregational Church, UCC.

The Rev. Dr. Candi Ashenden of the Athol Congregational Church, UCC. STAFF PHOTO/PAUL FRANZ

By THE REV. DR. CANDI ASHENDEN

Senior Pastor, Athol Congregational Church, UCC

Published: 07-19-2024 9:57 AM

Before heading to South Korea in August to visit my son who teaches there, I did a little research into the religions of South Korea and was intrigued by what I learned. I discovered that South Korea, a vibrant country with a rich cultural tapestry, offers an inspiring example of religious harmony amidst diversity. Despite its small geographical size, South Korea is home to a multitude of faith traditions, each contributing to the nation’s unique spiritual landscape.

Historically, South Korea’s religious fabric has been woven from threads of Shamanism, Buddhism, Confucianism, and more recently, Christianity. Buddhism and Confucianism have long been integral to Korean culture, influencing social norms, educational values, and daily practices. The arrival of Christianity in the 18th century added a new dimension to the religious diversity, with both Protestantism and Catholicism growing rapidly. Today, South Korea boasts one of the largest Christian populations in Asia, while still honoring its Buddhist and Confucian heritage.

One key aspect of South Korea’s religious harmony is the mutual respect and understanding among different faith communities. For example, it is not uncommon to find people who practice ancestral rites (a Confucian tradition) while attending Christian services or visiting Buddhist temples. This blending of practices demonstrates a profound respect for the diverse spiritual needs and backgrounds of individuals.

In the heart of Korean culture lies a deeply-ingrained concept known as “Jeong.” This unique and multifaceted term encapsulates feelings of affection, compassion, and an emotional bond that transcends mere friendship or kinship. Jeong is a foundational element that binds people together, fostering a sense of community and mutual care. As I explored this beautiful concept, I couldn’t help but find striking parallels to the core teachings of Christianity and I believe that the essence of Jeong resonates with the fundamental principles of many world religions.

In Christianity, one of the central tenets is the commandment to “love one another” (John 13:34) and the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” (Matthew 7:12). These principles emphasize empathy, compassion, and mutual respect — values that are intrinsic to the concept of Jeong. Just as Jeong encourages individuals to care deeply for others and act with kindness, Christianity calls upon believers to embody love and compassion in their interactions.

The idea of treating others with kindness and consideration is not exclusive to Christianity, or to the South Korean people, however. In fact, it is a universal principle found in many religious traditions. For example:

Judaism: The Torah teaches, “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18).

Islam: The Hadith states, “None of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.”

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Buddhism: The Buddha’s teachings include the principle of “Metta” (loving-kindness).

Hinduism: The Mahabharata emphasizes, “This is the sum of duty: Do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you.”

Confucianism: Confucius taught, “Do not impose on others what you do not wish for yourself.”

These examples illustrate that the essence of Jeong, with its focus on deep emotional bonds and caring relationships, is a universal value echoed across various faith traditions. The common thread that runs through these teachings is the call to live in harmony with others, to practice empathy, and to build communities founded on mutual respect and love.

Just imagine if our local churches, our communities, our schools, our governments all tried to live with a deep understanding and embracing of the spirit of Jeong. If we did this, how could we not enrich our spiritual lives and deepen our connections with one another? How could we not begin to move towards truly valuing our differences and embracing all people as worthy? As we reflect on the South Korean experience, we can all draw valuable lessons.

Embracing diversity within our own congregations means recognizing and respecting the varied spiritual journeys of our members. By fostering an environment of open dialogue and mutual respect, we can create a space where everyone feels valued and understood. By fostering an environment where everyone feels a profound sense of belonging and care, we can reflect the love and compassion that Jesus taught. Moreover, recognizing the shared values across different religions can inspire us to engage in interfaith dialogue and collaboration, promoting peace and understanding in our broader community.

So, I ask: Will you join me? Will you join me in striving to live out the teachings of “loving one another” and practicing the Golden Rule, and embracing the spirit of Jeong? I hope so, because by doing so, we not only honor our own faith tradition, but also celebrate the universal principles that unite us all. In a world that often highlights division, let us be ambassadors of love, compassion, and unity, drawing inspiration from the rich tapestry of global spiritual wisdom.

Athol Congregational Church, UCC, is a local community of faith that is “small enough to know you, large enough to serve.” We are currently celebrating in-person worship as well as offering Facebook livestream services under “Athol Congregational Videos.” Our pastor and our members are available for conversation on our Athol Congregational Church Facebook page, and through private messages, and we would love to connect! We offer long-distance Reiki through our certified practitioners, are willing to pray with you whatever your need, and want to know you, whoever you are! We are located at 1225 Chestnut Street, and can be reached at 978-249-6202.